Life is filled with hidden things. Hidden costs, hidden
fees, hidden agendas, hidden calories, hidden sugars and the list is endless.
I am admittedly a news and information addict. The media format is
insignificant give me audio, visual or print. Invariably a few times a year
there is a story in the media regarding a person living a double life. These
individuals go about their dual existence and in many instances show no outward
signs of stress or distress. They have two families, two careers, two cars, two
sets of friends, associates and rarely is there any type of intersection.
Dateline NBC is notorious for these type stories and I have a ravenous appetite
for the details. With each viewing I ask how they keep all the lies straight. It's
a challenge for most of us to manage our lives as they are currently
structured. The thought of adding sets of additional people into the mix is far
beyond basic comprehension. A common denominator in these stories is the person
leading the double life is an expert at hiding things. They have strategically
compartmentalized their lives in a way that they believe their lies are truth.
It is so easy to become judgmental and critical of these persons, but how
different are we when we have hidden things in our lives. Many of us fail to
face things in our lives that are just not working for us. We take on the
position of an ostrich sticking our heads in the sand pretending nothing is
wrong. Each of us must have someone in our live that has permission to rattle
or dismantle our self-constructed cages. Yes, these persons are like sandpaper
rubbing us the wrong way while also unmasking our hidden things.
So what are
you hiding?
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