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DEAL WITH IT

Does it seem that folks in your life have an unspoken agenda against you? Hey newsflash! Maybe it is not a figment of your wandering imagination. Now I know each of us think we are totally wonderful and we find it incomprehensible that everyone does not also find us wonderful. Let me burst your bubble there are people in your life that are just not right. It's not that they are not right for you. They are just not right period. Forget the piety party. Treat them with a long handle spoon and move on.

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